Rattled: How to Calm New Mom Anxiety with the Power of the Postpartum Brain

冷靜啊!新手媽媽

類別 : 育兒教養
ISBN:978-1682688304
頁數 : 240
出版 : Countryman Press, 2024 年 4 月 30 日
版本 : 精裝版
版權窗口 : 繁體博達代理Karen / 简体博達代理Karen

內容介紹

女性從懷孕、生產到育兒初期,會經歷一段影響生理、心理與人際關係的巨大轉變,變化的劇烈程度絕對不亞於已經被大眾接受的青春期,這段不為人知的重要人類發展階段被稱為Matrescence,這個詞彙結合了"maternal"(母親的)和"adolescence"(青春期),意指女性「從女人成為母親」這個時期經歷類似於青春期在心裡、生理與社為層面的變化,也可以說是「女性的第二次青春期」。

 

大多數新手媽媽會帶嬰兒去看醫生,卻忽視了自己可能出現的任何令人心神不寧的感覺或症狀。作者妮可‧彭薩克博士(Nicole Pensak, PhD)分享了自己和病人的經歷,確保新手媽媽在步入初為人母階段時能獲得完整資訊、認同和指引。

 

生完孩子後,媽媽們常常會感覺自己變成了另外一個人。這聽起來很誇張,但實際上從懷孕到產後,女性身心經過翻天覆地的變化,就像青春期一樣,對大腦和身體有深層的影響。更糟的是,許多女性會隱瞞這些內心變化,擔心自己是不是出了問題。

 

作者在此向各位新手媽媽擔保,在身份和情緒發生了劇烈的轉變後,感覺到「心神不寧」是正常的,並不奇怪。研究顯示,女性在生產後大腦會迅速發生生物學上的變化,許多媽媽會變得過度敏感,大腦告訴她要隨時保持警惕,因為她有一個生命體需要照顧。這種影響雖然會帶來焦慮感,卻也可以幫助應對產後憂鬱,這是神經重塑的表現。

 

作者在耶魯和哈佛醫學院受過訓練,並獲得產前產後心理健康專業認證。這本書旨在減輕新生媽媽們追求完美而產生的焦慮與壓力,為建立新家庭生活提供實際的建議。此書也討論了女性在成為母親這個重要的人生階段接受心理健康診斷和治療的好處,並提供通俗易懂的科學知識、感同身受的故事,以及自我照顧的方法。這本書將成為新手媽媽和家人們可以一再參考的實用指南。

 

目錄

Part I 如何真正準備好做媽媽

  1. 理想的媽媽
  2. 媽媽腦的真相
  3. 準備好產後心理健康照顧計畫
  4. 女性的第二次青春期與初為人母的轉變
  5. 鞏固婚姻

 

Part II 如何適應成為新手媽媽

  1. 與嬰兒建立親密關係與第一次失望
  2. 如何降低媽媽愧疚感(Mom Guilt)
  3. 淡化外在對媽媽的羞辱(Mom Shame)
  4. 接納自己的媽媽脾氣(Mom Rage)
  5. 如何處理心理健康危機

 

Part III 如何從在產後初期的生存戰走向自我成長

  1. 如何控制神經重塑
  2. 如何掌握轉變: 重回職場
  3. 化危機為轉機

作者介紹

獲得產前產後心理健康專業認證的國家級臨床心理師,專門治療焦慮、抑鬱和強迫症。她曾在耶魯大學醫學院接受培訓,在哈佛大學醫學院完成博士後研究。目前在紐澤西州蒙茅斯擁有私人診所。

書評

"Becoming a new mother can be extremely overwhelming, and it can lead to increased mental stress. Dr. Pensak has done an exceptional job in examining the ins and out of maternal mental health and providing practical and accessible evidence-based knowledge and strategies for new parents. If you’re an expectant or new parent, Rattled is a must-read."

― Eve Rodsky, New York Times best-selling author of Fair Play and national bestseller Find Your Unicorn Space

 

"Rattled is a must-read for all mothers. Dr. Pensak seamlessly blends science and practical strategies that finally changes the narrative around ‘mommy brain.’ Eloquently capturing the true wonder of the mother’s brain, Dr. Pensak brings much-needed attention and clarity to the physiological and psychological changes that occur over the course of a mother’s development and shares tangible strategies [and] easy-to-use tools to empower mothers through their own evolution (and protect their mental health). Dr. Pensak is funny, raw, and inviting, sharing her own unique journey into the chaotic and beautiful world of motherhood. Thank you, Dr. Pensak for helping us as mothers feel seen during this time of profound transformation, and for giving us the tools to ‘up the ante’ and thrive. Rattled has instantly reached the top of my list of recommendations for all moms I work with. . . . I can’t wait to recommend to my patients, family, and friends."

― Elizabeth Reichert, PhD, codirector, Stanford Parenting Center, Stanford School of Medicine

 

"In this incredibly supportive and practical resource for new mothers everywhere, Rattled equips women with what to psychologically expect ‘when you are expecting,’ and guides new mothers through the power and peril of matrescense, the developmental stage of motherhood we didn’t know existed or were taught to believe had no possible upsides. Through a blend of rigorous science and personal anecdotes, Dr. Pensak offers compelling new and alternative explanations for our anxieties and perceived inadequacies while artfully connecting us with a concrete and hopeful path forward."

― Jamie Jacobs, PhD, director of caregiving research, Mass General Cancer Center; assistant professor of psychology, Harvard Medical School; and mom of two

 

"Nicole Pensak’s Rattled is essential reading for moms and dads and the loved ones and caregivers who support them. It answers so many of the questions my wife and I had about how motherhood changes, influences, and shapes new moms, and it answers them thoughtfully, empathically, and with the authority of science and practical experience. Pensak is the perfect guide on this journey, enriching Rattled with her experiences as an author, researcher, scientist, therapist―and, of course, mom―trained in post-partum therapy, anxiety, and depression. Highly recommended!"

― Adam Alter, professor of psychology and marketing, New York University’s Stern School of Business and Psychology Department, and New York Times best-selling author, Anatomy of a Breakthrough

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Rattled: How to Calm New Mom Anxiety with the Power of the Postpartum Brain

冷靜啊!新手媽媽

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